She Is The Bully
I understand how difficult being a victim on bullying is. In fact, I am a victim of bullying.
I just thought I'd share some advice on this particular subject
Everybody says the reason she is so horrid is because she is jealous of me or insecure.
I'm not saying that's her fault, but still, it's not an excuse to ruin somebody else's life. It's not even a cause - she needs to find a way of dealing with how she is feeling.
So this girl, she makes me feel like rubbish. Like I'm worthless. She manages to convince me I'm fat, ugly and mean. She's even made videos about me and my friend about us being horrid.
Every day, I see her, she's in my school class, so I could easily tell a teacher or a parent, but I can't. I know I should, but I can't. She has a way of twisting her words so people will feel sorry for her. My aunty has told me to ignore her, avoid her, but how can I if I see her every day at school? There's no way of getting out of the situation unless I move schools, which I can't. I can't leave my friends!
This girl has made me do some of my biggest regrets, which I'm not going to talk about. She's made me do things no person should ever have to do. She's made me leave people behind, people who I really loved. She's made me do things I didn't want to do.
So, this is a chance to stop. I say, we confront the bully. I say we tell people. It makes you feel so alone, when there's no way of getting out of a situation. But whatever happens, you shouldn't feel alone. Building up courage is hard. Really difficult. Especially when you know things that the bully can do. But you at least have to try. You can't just give up and let the bully walk all over you.
TELL SOMEBODY. I know it's not going to be easy, but every good thing is hard to get. Get yourself out of the situation, out of it. It doesn't matter who you tell, it just has to be somebody who will help.
Just talking about it can make so much difference. Just try.
If you have been affected by bullying, there is help available. You can start by talking to Meic for free via phone, text message, instant message or email.